The Urge To Know..
When people let you go, for whatever reasons.. You get that feeling or like, curiousity to know how they feel when you're not in their lives anymore. You have that URGE TO KNOW if you are missed at all & you start to have many thoughts in your head.
You wonder if they're happy that you're finally gone, they're sad, lost, comfortable, reliefed? Many Questions just pops up in your head causing a huge mess. You think if you have left any good memories or even memories at all , or you're just somebody they used to know.. You ask yourself if they wish to have you back, Especially when all you do is missing them..
One might think, "What's the point to know since it's already over?". But to know that you left an impact in someone's life kinda cushion your blow a little bit.. To know that someone's hurting over you and needs you like you do is like being on the same page with someone because It feels stupid when you feel bad for someone and on the other hand he/she just feels nothing.
Eventually, Actions will tell, However, Some people are really good at hiding their feelings that you start to question if they have feelings in the first place. They tend to believe that letting themselves out in the open is a sign of weakness, while others hide what they feel because they think it won't matter anyway.
I believe when you really let people know exactly how you feel, It's like a secret finally set free and things could majorly change.. showing feelings is the only way to communicate correctly..
You wonder if they're happy that you're finally gone, they're sad, lost, comfortable, reliefed? Many Questions just pops up in your head causing a huge mess. You think if you have left any good memories or even memories at all , or you're just somebody they used to know.. You ask yourself if they wish to have you back, Especially when all you do is missing them..
One might think, "What's the point to know since it's already over?". But to know that you left an impact in someone's life kinda cushion your blow a little bit.. To know that someone's hurting over you and needs you like you do is like being on the same page with someone because It feels stupid when you feel bad for someone and on the other hand he/she just feels nothing.
Eventually, Actions will tell, However, Some people are really good at hiding their feelings that you start to question if they have feelings in the first place. They tend to believe that letting themselves out in the open is a sign of weakness, while others hide what they feel because they think it won't matter anyway.
I believe when you really let people know exactly how you feel, It's like a secret finally set free and things could majorly change.. showing feelings is the only way to communicate correctly..